We are all incredibly powerful, and our true power is found within. In contrast to the old thinking that power is external—based on monetary, material, or intellectual accolades—your true power lies inside of you. It is the WHO of YOU.
Tapping into this power allows you to create the life you desire. And you truly can! But first, you need to know the WHO of YOU.
This means understanding yourself deeply—what makes you tick, what brings you joy, what frustrates you, and what fuels you. Every emotion you feel is valid, and no one else can dictate how you should feel. You are the master of your own domain, just as others are of theirs.
Yet, society often pressures us to be a certain way, to suppress emotions, to conform. And why? Because at its core, there is a belief that love—whether it comes as acceptance, support, or acknowledgment—is conditional.
But here’s the secret: true love, true acceptance, begins within. You cannot fully receive it from others until you recognize and nurture it within yourself. And let me tell you—who you are is absolutely worth loving.
When others expect you to act a certain way, it’s often driven by their own unconscious need to control, to manage uncertainty, or to validate their own way of being. But their path is theirs, just as yours is yours. The key is to be who you are, to be happy within yourself, without seeking external validation.
So many of us have spent our lives searching for external approval. But the truth is, you are already enough. You are fine just as you are—if you believe that for yourself. And if you don’t? Then the work is not to change into someone else’s version of “acceptable,” but to uncover and embrace the real WHO of YOU.
A Diamond Within
I like to think of each of us as a diamond—unique, multifaceted, and brilliantly strong. No two diamonds are the same, yet each one is valuable, resilient, and shines in its own way. And so do you.
Perfection isn’t about flawlessness. It’s about embracing yourself fully—warts and all. When you do that, you tap into a power that is uniquely yours.
Building a relationship with yourself isn’t vanity or selfishness. It’s about understanding and honoring who you truly are. It’s about operating at your best, in a way that fuels you and aligns with your truth.
Diving into YOU
So, how do you start uncovering the WHO of YOU? Simple. Dive in.
Become more conscious of your thoughts, feelings, and actions in every situation. The same energy and attention you give to work, hobbies, or relationships—turn that focus inward. Just as you invest time in understanding others, invest that same level of enthusiasm in getting to know yourself.
By doing this, you will come to know and embrace The Power of the WHO of YOU.
Power Statement:
Who I am is truly wonderful, exactly as I am.